Boundaries are healthy

It feels so liberating to know I don't have invite certain people to my home if I do not want to. It feels so good to know I can say "No" without feeling guilty of hurting someone elses feelings, and not feeling bad about it. It is so nice to know that I can attend certain functions and not others and have no care in the world about what other's think. It is nice to know that I having set boundaries I have grown to be more assertive, independent and others are less apt to imposing their stuff onto me. I have set my ground and have posted my boundaries to help me make better decisions, to protect me from getting abused and also to allow myself to see myself as a decision maker and not as a "have to person". Boundaries are healthy, but setting them up is alot of work...but anyone can do it.